Lesson: Relationships: Love Milestones
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Every important milestone in a relationship creates a Ruling Chart.
Significant milestones in a deepening relationship create a series of Ruling Charts for each level of intimacy you reach. Choose your Ruling Charts with care to give the relationship its best odds.
The current Ruling Chart reveals the energy imprint that will lead to the next milestone. A positive Ruling Chart for a milestone helps the couple reach the next milestone. A negative milestone at any stage can derail the relationship.
The last relationship milestone reached on the list below represents the Ruling Chart for the relationship, except that the first meeting date is never completely discarded, it will always co-rule the relationship. More about Ruling Charts
Love Milestones
● First app contact
● First email or text
● First phone call
● First Zoom/Facetime
● First face-to-face meeting
● First lovemaking
● Engagement
● Wedding date
Strategies
>If you accidentally lock a bad milestone, replace it with a well-timed subsequent milestone.
>If you lock a great milestone, never let it be replaced with a worse milestone.
>Hoping to meet someone? Get out there more on great days. Hide out more on poor days. Schedule first meeting dates mindfully, you’ll be stuck with these Ruling Charts forever.
>Astrologer hack: Whenever you add ANYONE to your contacts, log the meeting date too.
LATEST REVISION DATE
22 August 2025